I remember sitting down to write my first book. I was so excited. Until I read what I wrote. It was awful. I tore up the pages in utter defeat.
This went on for months. I’d write. Read the draft. Rip it up in disgust. Walk away in despair. Eventually the book got written but oh, did I suffer. It was the same with each of my next 6 books.
When I started working on my 8th book, I swore I’d do it differently. And I did. Here’s how I made the process actually pleasurable. I share it with you because even if you’re not writing a book, these steps apply to any project that feels difficult or insurmountable.
- Don’t wait until you’re inspired. William Faulkner said, “I only write when I am inspired. Fortunately, I am inspired at 9 o’clock every morning.” So I’d block time on my calendar for writing, whether I’m inspired or not. Try setting deadlines…they work wonders!
- Kick perfectionism out the door. My new approach: Write shit, then clean it up. Awful first drafts don’t mean I’m an awful writer. It means I have to become a really good REwriter. As prolific author, Nora Roberts says, “I can fix a bad page. I can’t fix a blank page.” If you can allow things to be messy in the beginning, it actually speeds up the process.
- Hold tight to a grander vision. I approached my last book as if I was supposed to write it and there’s one person out there who really needs to hear what only I can say. When my ego insists I’m a fraud and everyone’s about to find out, I just say “Thank you for sharing” and tune in to my Soul’s guidance. Do you believe with all your heart it’s yours to do?
- Make it a priority. Writing had to take precedence over the myriad of other items on my list. When the book became a priority, right up there with spending time with my kids, the momentum shifted, and the writing took precedence. No struggle or effort necessary.Is your project really a priority?
Is there something you really want to share with the world or even with that one person who may desperately need what you have to offer? Tell me about it in the comments below, then, by all means, start!
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