Don’t Let Your Brain Be the Boss! 

Quick. Pick one. Which would you rather have: (A) Higher earnings or (B) More in savings?

I’m guessing you went for (A).  Most people do. We tend to be far more concerned with increasing our income rather than growing our net worth.  But hey, it’s not our fault. That’s how our brain is wired.

A recent Cornell University study discovered that our brains are biased toward earning and against saving. Perhaps it’s the immediate gratification our paychecks offer while socking away savings feels about as gratifying as watching grass grow

“Fundamentally it comes down to this,” the study reported. “Saving is less valuable to our brains, which devote less attentional resources to it. Our brains find saving more difficult to attend to.”

If ever there was a strong case for rewiring our brains, this is it. Fixating on earnings can be fool hardy. I call it the Illusion of Affluence. I see it all the time with successful women. Their significant earnings gives them the illusion, but not the security, of true abundance.

It’s a fact:

Wealth doesn’t come from what you earn. Wealth comes from what you save.

But wait…getting rich isn’t the only reason to be a saver.

Consider the title of a 2016 study: “How Your Bank Balance Buys Happiness: The Importance of “Cash on Hand” to Life Satisfaction.” This study, as reported in What the Elle, found that higher savings is a better predictor of happiness and well-being than hefty incomes.

Add to that the result of the 2018 Ellevest Census: “The #1 confidence booster for women is saving and investing (63% of women ranked it over things like salary and education).

The message is clear. Don’t let your brain be the boss.  Force yourself to focus on savings rather than obsessing about earnings.

Which would you choose: (A) A big fat paycheck or (B) lots of money set aside? Tell me in the comments below.

Comments & Feedback

  • Karen

    A big fat paycheck so I have more money to save and invest. I think you need A to accomplish B. Otherwise B is a dream

    • Lisa

      Karen, the paycheck doesn’t have to be big and fat, but the savings do need to be consistent over several years no matter how small the savings are. Some people do earn a big, fat paycheck, but blow EVERYTHING on “retail therapy”, save absolutely nothing, then lose their big fat paycheck and hope and pray a sudden large amount of money will come in so they can quickly financially catch up! (To anyone who is trying to manifest a lottery win or something fantastical like that, I recommend investing in the stock market first. For some reason I can’t explain, investing seems to attract more luck).

      It is a really nice, smug feeling when you realize your net worth is higher than you’re annual salary. From a spiritual point of view, it kind of feels like you’re worth more than you’re job and you also appreciate your savings knowing how many year(s) people have to hustle and grind for your what you have in the bank.

    • barbara huson

      You really don’t need a big fat paycheck to save. Small amounts, a few dollars a month, consistently saved will add up quickly with compounded interest. Try it…you’ll see.

  • Heidi S

    (B) savings–of course!!!

    I want to be able–and am able–to comfortably pay my basic bills. I do NOT want to be stressing over basic survival.

    I don’t need to be in the top 20% of the (U.S.) population whose luxury purchases are fueling 50% of our economy. (I just heard this statistic on the PBS News hour.) I don’t find/feel “luxury” to be meaningful.

    Driving through a car wash that puts a beautiful clear coat on my 2008 Toyota Yaris is a luxury.

    • Lisa

      Heidi,

      That is worrying that half of the US economy is funded by luxury purchases.

      Regarding lack of savings and debt, I heard the biggest cause in the US is car debt 💸. Families are not necessarily buying luxury vehicles, but second hand cars without using cash. They’re taking out loans to get these old vehicles! On top of that, there’s all the costs associated with owning a car 🚗 registration , insurance, gas, maintenance checks, repairs, parking, and car wash. Some families owe money on multiple cars and refuse to share a car to lower their expenses, so they have more money to save and spend. Some people drive a car to work when their workplace is only 20 minutes walk away from their home. I don’t own a car, I walk everywhere. It’s liberating and get my daily steps!

    • barbara huson

      Good call, Heidi. Consistently saving small amounts will grow faster than you realize , so you can pay your bills without stress!

  • Lisa

    B) A lot of money set aside, because when the paycheck stops it means nothing! Savings keep compounding and it means your not a slave to your paycheck!

  • barbara huson

    Good call, Heidi. Consistently saving small amounts will grow faster than you realize , so you can pay your bills without stress!

Meet Barbara Huson

When a devastating financial crisis rocked her world, Barbara Huson knew she had to get smart about money… and she did. Now, she wants to empower every women to take charge of their money and take charge of their lives! She’s doing just that with her best-selling books, life changing retreats and private financial coaching.

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